Love Might Be Unsafe

But Why?

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Any definition of true love - though hundreds might be given - must include that the following be evident:

erotic desire for each other, care for each other's wellbeing.

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Humans are affective beings, that is, we experience life via feelings, emotions, and moods instead of just reason. Two vital sentiments help us support the prior assesment of love.

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Love is NOT about great sex - not in the first place! It is about desire more than anything.

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"What I want from you is you to want me!"

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Care for each other's wellbeing and growth is dependent on making beneficial choices!

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"Will you be there for me tomorrow?"

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"Will you be there for me tomorrow?"

"What I want from you is you to want me!"

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"What I want from you is you to want me!"

If two people cannot want each other in mind and body, there ain't much love between them.

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"Will you be there for me tomorrow?"

If two people will not help each other to grow or become, there ain't much love between them, either.

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It is not easy to desire as well as care over time, it isn't.

And so, people will experience all kind of subtleties and nuances in and of love.

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Other, some lesser, forms of love do exist. There is friendship, sympathy, compassion, even pity. Hate is the shadow of love. Is some love not better than no love at all?

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Psychic undercurrents of guiltiness and self-pity may compromise all noble love. These conditions, if not remediated, will probably cause unfulfilling marriages.

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A shared belief in and perhaps experience of God's love as the sort of 'secret sauce' or a 'model of love' can help. 

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But is it true that... 

"... you want me!"

...largely because I believe in God and can thus be calculated a 'safer' choice?

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Or is it true that... 

"... you want me!"

...because I am who I am - fascinating, burgeoning, vital, delightfully unsafe - and still be capable of caring? 

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There is perhaps no simple solution to this perplexing endeavor of selecting a mate. 

"What I want from you is you to want me!"

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Is it safety and security one seeks in a mate, or fascination and delight, or perhaps simply familiarity? Or a good-enough balance of sorts?

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