Love Might Be Unsafe

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Any definition of true love - though hundreds might be given - must include that the following be evident:

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Humans are affective beings, that is, we experience life via feelings, emotions, and moods instead of just reason. Two vital sentiments help us support the prior assesment of love.

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Love is NOT about great sex - not in the first place! It is about desire more than anything.

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Care for each other's wellbeing and growth is dependent on making beneficial choices!

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"Will you be there for me tomorrow?"

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"What I want from you is you to want me!"

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"Will you be there for me tomorrow?"

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It is not easy to desire as well as care over time, it isn't.

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Other, some lesser, forms of love do exist. There is friendship, sympathy, compassion, even pity. Hate is the shadow of love. Is some love not better than no love at all?

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Psychic undercurrents of guiltiness and self-pity may compromise all noble love. These conditions, if not remediated, will probably cause unfulfilling marriages.

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A shared belief in and perhaps experience of God's love as the sort of 'secret sauce' or a 'model of love' can help.

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But is it true that...

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Or is it true that...

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There is perhaps no simple solution to this perplexing endeavor of selecting a mate.

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Is it safety and security one seeks in a mate, or fascination and delight, or perhaps simply familiarity? Or a good-enough balance of sorts?

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Love Might Be Unsafe

But Why?

Any definition of true love - though hundreds might be given - must include that the following be evident:

erotic desire for each other, care for each other's wellbeing.

Humans are affective beings, that is, we experience life via feelings, emotions, and moods instead of just reason. Two vital sentiments help us support the prior assesment of love.

Love is NOT about great sex - not in the first place! It is about desire more than anything.

"What I want from you is you to want me!"

Care for each other's wellbeing and growth is dependent on making beneficial choices!

"Will you be there for me tomorrow?"

"Will you be there for me tomorrow?"

"What I want from you is you to want me!"

"What I want from you is you to want me!"

If two people cannot want each other in mind and body, there ain't much love between them.

"Will you be there for me tomorrow?"

If two people will not help each other to grow or become, there ain't much love between them, either.

It is not easy to desire as well as care over time, it isn't.

And so, people will experience all kind of subtleties and nuances in and of love.

Other, some lesser, forms of love do exist. There is friendship, sympathy, compassion, even pity. Hate is the shadow of love. Is some love not better than no love at all?

Psychic undercurrents of guiltiness and self-pity may compromise all noble love. These conditions, if not remediated, will probably cause unfulfilling marriages.

A shared belief in and perhaps experience of God's love as the sort of 'secret sauce' or a 'model of love' can help.

But is it true that...

"... you want me!"

...largely because I believe in God and can thus be calculated a 'safer' choice?

Or is it true that...

"... you want me!"

...because I am who I am - fascinating, burgeoning, vital, delightfully unsafe - and still be capable of caring?

There is perhaps no simple solution to this perplexing endeavor of selecting a mate.

"What I want from you is you to want me!"

Is it safety and security one seeks in a mate, or fascination and delight, or perhaps simply familiarity? Or a good-enough balance of sorts?